13-01-2013

Have just had a crazy 72 hours, Thursday night went out for B'day drinks with B, and her mates, was an awesome night, having a girls night out, others treating me like a normal woman, admittedly had to do the Trans Briefing, as per usual, towards the end of the night, they waited till they thought we were all comfortable with each other.
Friday night, was a night out with a difference? The women down here that knew K before she went to Barking, arranged a B'day night out too, started off at the Royston, no problem's, then off to the Station House in North Chingford. Everything was going fine till later on, went to the loo, some bimbo had a problem with me going to the ladies, seemed to think that trans women should use the Gents, she'll probably think Trans men should use the ladies too, anyway, after all her shouting, a bouncer came up, a male bouncer in the ladies? he then goes on to continualy call me 'Bruv'? He then decides to grab hold of my left arm, with his right arm? I know he had no idea bout my previouse life, but he should have known about his Diversity Training? So I overlock his arm, think about punching him, realise with his build, my punch with have no effect, so decide on a Heel Punch, if required.
  
His Boss turns up, She escorts me downstairs, then outside. Because of an incident requiring the Bouncers, she feels I should have been taken outside, why not the bimbo too, anyway, she starts chatting to me, and admits, in this situation the regulations are wrong, she even thought I was a CIS women, not  a trans, WOW. K comes out,I  tell her to grab the rest of the girls, and my jacket, she goes back in, Security Boss seems to be receiving something on radio, tells me to stay away from front door, and wait for K. Seems to be forever, bloody freezing too, my bum is getting number than anywhere else? after a while K comes out again, telling me that the boss herself want to speak to me, in side(?). T is oh so apologetic, turms out she has a few Trans friends, SB comes around again, tellls me that she will be SPEAKING to the bouncer at the end of the night, and Ripping Him A New Arsehole. SB then say's to stay away from the front door, where the Bouncer is. T asks me, she understands I would prefer to use the ladies as per, but to keep everything calm, asks me if I could use the Disabled Toilet. Also she asks me to keep an eye out for the Bimbo, but not go out looking for her. I think I see her, give wrong ID on her, finaly I ID her, SB see's and grabs her.

I'll have to go back up to the station, just to see that everything ok. T and SB have said I'm not barred, they did say the Bimbo will be barred though! So although had a shitty time in the middle of it all, ended having a brilliant time, and a brilliant response, finaly.

As K left yesterday, she did mention about us Doing it every Friday, that could be too much, have to hold onto my cash, also have to think about not being able to handle my drink anymore, also have to think about 26th, having a night out, at WOC with H?







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